Issues on Forgiveness

26 08 2009

Yesterday I listened on the radio about this man who got hurt by someone he loved, not physically but emotionally. In his effort to forgive he wondered what he should do to prevent it from happening again. The answer, even though very logical and true, made me think of my own actions in trying to control and protect myself from the same thing happening again. There are many things we can do to try to prevent a situation but we can’t stop anyone from doing what they want to do, it is their decision, and no matter how many barriers and obstacles we put on their way, if they want to do something they would find a way to do it anyway.

It is nerve racking to stay put and to wait for what could happen, it is difficult to stay and act like nothing happened, it is hard to think that you might have to go through it all over again. To forgive is not for the faint of heart, it is one of the most difficult things to do. I guess we try because we know that we are not perfect either and that in many occasions forgiveness has been given to us as well, especially from God. To forgive and forget is divine, no doubt, it is not in our nature. It is a fierce struggle to make it work and to break loose. It is a storm of emotions.

How do you feel about it? What is your experience with forgiveness?





Advice for Living

22 08 2009

Today I want to share with you wise word from a friend of mine, and in his blog he talks about living something many of us forget to do so many times. It is interesting to read that at times we have no control over our situation and we make our life miserable either thinking about the future or the past forgetting our present. Here is the song that inspired his blog entry.

I could identify with what he wrote, I guess we all can at different levels. To be wise is not to know it all, but to know how to deal with the majority of our earthly existence situations and to transcend what should have no power over us. Thank you Bill for those wise words.

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Clary Lopez, author of Simplicity Richness of Life
http://clarylopez.com





Dealing with the Unexpected

17 08 2009

Life has ways to throw at us the unexpected, is not meant to be planned out to the last detail. Having room for the unexpected will move us into areas that perhaps we never consider but that now we are right in the middle of it. I hate it when that happens, but never the less I have to deal with it; sometimes badly, others much better. It all has to do with attitude I guess.

How do you deal with the unexpected??